The lie at the heart of Game.

If you ask and pick up guru why they are good with women you will be told that they clawed their way to success through hard work. This is a cheering message but unfortunately it is also a lie.

Let us look at the gurus a little closer- what do we find? Almost every one of them has a lifestyle that would draw women to them no matter how bad their game. In most cases they became good with women through practice because their lifestyles were drawing women to them anyway.

Mystery is an illusionist and now he is a T.V star as well. I could take the geekiest guy in the world, put him on T.V and follow him around with cameras and I am sure he would get laid.

How about Style? He is on first name terms with rock stars and is also a millionaire. Tyler is worshiped like a rock star and has male groupies follow him around and hang on every word. The entire RSD business empire is a colossal DHV.

Gambler looks like a male model, AFC Adam was a club promoter and so on. This is not to say that their advice is not good- but be aware that they did NOT drag themselves from AFCdom by the methods they teach. Every pick up guru (with the apparent exception of Ross Jefferies) has cultivated a rock star lifestyle and then laid game on top.

NLP for Business weekend.

Last weekend I attended an NLP for business weekend with Toby and Kate McCartney who are both Master Trainers in the art. How to sum up the experience? Here are my impressions in no particular order.

1) The weekend was remarkably hype and hysteria free. One the things that I find tiresome about many NLP derivatives is that it seems to confuse manic hysteria with positivity. It is quite possible to maintain a positive outlook on life without waving ones arms about like a startled chicken or talking in the same way. In fact I find this sort of thing to be very tiring to watch and cannot imagine what it must be like to be in this state for any length of time.

2) There were no obvious attempts to hypnotise me into buying anything from them during the presentation (which is not to say there were more subtle attempts of course). The weekend itself was free on the understanding that they would pitch us on buying their certificated trainings during the weekend. They promised no arm twisting and kept to the promise. Toby and Kate also impressed me by keeping their claims for NLP within the bounds of reason. They demonstrated an addiction breaking patten by which a volunteer was taken on stage and asked to visualise someones vomit on her arm. This mental picture was then mixed with the image of her favorite cigarette brand until she became as revolted by the cigarettes as she was by the vomit.

3) Some people seem to be more prone to NLP than others. It was noticeable that the same woman was called to the stage on multiple occasions simply because her eye pattens were as NLP said they should be. Derren Brown (the T.V illusionist) uses this technique in his more spectacular T.V stunts. They are almost certainly real but the audience does not know that Derren selects only one out of a hundred people.

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The land of the living.

I feel that I will be offered a job this week (how is that for emotion based reasoning?) and would like to rejoin human society.

This blog is set up to help me do exactly that.

Please read my 1000 things to do before I die. This lists a great many places I would like to visit (cheaply).

Maybe you would like to see them with me?

Are you a closet survivalist? Do you suspect that you would not last long on your own? Join me!

Do you understand the Alpha Strategy? Do you have any concrete plans?

Are you looking for a wingman?

Alpha mirroring.

Alpha mirroring is the phenomena by which a woman who is attached to an Alpha man takes on Alpha characteristics of her own. The first thing you will notice about her is her posture, she walks with an upright grace and smiles often. She is outgoing and friendly and seems not to have a care in the world.

Unfortunately we also see Beta mirroring where a woman succeeds in undermining her man through various shit tests. This has the effect of making the man Beta (twitchy and submissive, indecisive, reclusive and risk adverse) without benefiting the woman in any way. In fact she will resent the man for his Betadom and will destroy him in a death of a thousand cuts.

On occasion I have seen Beta men destroy women in exactly the same way- a drip drip campaign of invalidation but I have never seen an Alpha woman bring her man to a state of Alpha with her. This may be because Alpha woman are simply not drawn to Beta men and so they never get together in the first place.

There is absolutely no downside to Alpha either for yourself or those around you. Go get some today!!

Why men forget.

Political leaders are generally men, business leaders are generally men and yet everywhere the voice of men is ignored. Why?

Is it that political leaders are some special breed? Or is it that somehow they forget what it is to be normal?

I believe that they forget. I know this because some days I am Alpha and some days Beta. When I am Alpha I cannot remember being any other way. This is not surprising. A large part of what makes an Alpha is the belief that women will treat him well. Most men can only do this by forgetting their own Beta pasts for how can we do this with our memory intact?

This is a problem for all men because political and business leaders are Alpha and have to forget the problems of Betas in order to be so. Alpha is the ultimate drug and the addict will do anything to remain so. If he remembers his Beta self at all it will be with a shudder of disgust and horror. This is why male politicians and male judges continue to shaft other men. They live in horror of Beta and dread returning to this state more than death itself.

From time to time we see a MGTOW blog disappear because it has been deleted by its owner. This happens because the writer has achieved Alpha status and cannot believe or understand what he has written. He reads about his own life in his own blog and cannot identify with it and so he deletes the blog as if it were written by a stranger.

A time to love, a time to hate (the clock method).

There is, as the song goes, a time to love and a time to hate. In order to take what life has to offer us we must love life. When we love life we approach it with open arms and draw good things towards ourselves. Some people see this as a sort of magic (the law of attraction) but it is nothing of the sort. In reality lovers of life are more lucky than other people because they expect the best from others. This tends to bring out the best in people and also causes the lover of life to see opportunity when it is there.

There is also a time to hate.

There is a worm eating at the heart of western society and in the heart of many men. Political correctness expresses itself as discrimination against men and in self hatred. The trouble is that focusing upon this evil can cause us to miss opportunities when we see them. Many of the best jobs are government jobs- but we will never apply for them while we believe the state to be a feminist monolith. There must be a way to combine realism with a sunny disposition.

My own method is to use a clock. Between 7.00am and 11.00pm I have the personality of a Labrador puppy. I approach everyone as if they were my friend- even feminists. Most 'feminists' really have no idea what the word means. There are many feminists who believe it has something to do with equality and I give these women a chance to be their best selves.

From 11.00pm onwards I allow myself to be the realist. I read blogs such as this one about the various ways in which men are screwed. This is a sort of mental rehearsal for coming battles, but I always clear my mind the following morning so that I can be open to whatever the new day has for me.