Is Game a cult?

Here is a link to the Cult Information Center where the properties of a therapy cult are discussed. There is also a site for disillusioned pick up artists to complain about their former gurus. Pick Up Hate.

Fascinating.

Here is a feminist guide to anti-game. It is one third intelligent, one third perceptive and one third batshit insane.anti-game. Fascinating.

Chicken Game

Chickens may be delicious but they are also cruel.

Each chicken has her place on the pecking order. The top chicken may peck at all her subordinates without being pecked in return. Most chickens are somewhere in the middle of the order. They may peck some chickens and be pecked by others. There is also a chicken at the bottom of the heap who is pecked at by all.

This is something like the brutal dating scene we find in the feminist countries. Some men are labeled omegas early on in life. We can identify this man because he is treated with contempt by all the women around him. This may be subtle or obvious. 'Pecking' varies from sighing and rolling of eyes every time a man speaks and goes right up to sexual harassment accusations. The point is that this 'pecking' reminds everyone- male and female- where they stand in the social hierarchy. Omega status therefore becomes accepted by all- even the omega himself.

Game is the act of rejecting ones status. A man may receive sexual abundance once he reaches Alpha- but simply reaching Beta may be an achievement if you were previously an Omega. Omegas are often bullied by female bosses and co workers. Simply raising oneself to a beta in their eyes may make it possible to do ones job for the first time.

It is possible that game may one day create a more humane and egalitarian society by granting Omegas the same social status as human beings.

The Science of Excuse

The ways in which men and women treat each other in various cultures is largely determined by the available excuses available to them to avoid sex.

I have always found moderate Moslem women exceptionally friendly. I believe that this is because the idea of them having sex with me is literally unthinkable because I do not share their religion. This means that they are free to be very 'real' with me without risking any sort of sexual attraction on their part. The same is true of Polish women (particularly the devout Catholics). They do not worry about courtship or attraction because their future is already decided- they will marry a Polish Catholic boy and have children. She has known this all her life and sees all other men as her brothers.

I have had friendships or meaningful moments with women of almost every nationality (the whole world comes to London) with one single exception- English girls. Why is it more difficult to have a meaningful conversation with an English girl? One reason may be that she has very few excuses not to sleep with me if she likes me. English girls are world famous for their sexual aggression when abroad. The only thing keeping them from behaving in the same way at home is fear for their reputation (sex on holiday does not count for some reason). Unfortunately she has no way to say 'no' without being rude. This is because she has no defense against sexual desire other than hostility. She cannot enjoy the company of a man she finds attractive because feminism has robbed her of any reason not to sleep with him.

Men suffer a similar problem. A man will often find himself enjoying the company of a woman but feels he should be moving things towards a sexual conclusion. This is because romance is seen as feminine. Many men seduce women they are not even interested in because they lack an excuse not to do so. Why are they in a sexless relationship? This appears freakish and emasculated and so they push forwards to a sexual conclusion that they do not even desire.

The gentleman identity can become a huge excuse not to make a relationship sexual. Simply look into a womans eyes and tell her that sex is a sacred thing to you. She will melt and feel that she has been transported to a romantic novel. She will also work harder at creating emotional connection between you.

It is quite possible to have romantic connections with multiple women. This is not sleazy or deceptive. You will share a starlight walk with one, a secret confession with another and so on. You may enjoy their panting desire for you as a result and only sleep with them when you are sure it will benefit you both. You must remember that men have exactly the same rights to veto sex as women. If a woman uses shaming language to get sex you should exclude her forever.

This is a beautiful, life enriching game for both of you if done correctly.

My weekend of bad Game

This weekend was supposed to be the relaunch of my career as a pick up artist. What a washout it turned out to be.

I started out with high expectations. I had learned of a free boot-camp that was run by a guy called Grant who wanted the validation of being a pickup guru and was prepared to share his expertise in order to receive it. I therefore cleared my weekend of all competing events and made it down to central London full of expectations- only to find that the other participants had decided that football and sunshine were better options so the event was canceled. It was rather ironic to find that pick up artists flake on me as so much game is dedicated to preventing women from doing the same. The original plan was to spend a few hours in the West End doing street approaches. Of course my bottle went the moment I got there because I had already been defeated by the cancellation of the boot-camp. I embarrassed myself a few times and then returned home again.

The next day I decided to go to speakers corner and rant and rave for a few hours. I would incorporate game into my public speaking and turn heckling into banter. I would treat all disagreement as a shit test and then see the result.

Actually it went quite well except that I completely forgot to do any gaming. I adopted a quieter and more conversational style of speaking than before and encountered little resistance. Most people have woken up to men's issues and are OK with it provided you do not seem anti woman. This perception brings out the white knights and makes serious discussion impossible.

I also spent far too much time debating religion (a futile task even if it draws an audience) and this ended with a Muslim promising to kill a Christian I was debating with. Most religious debates end in this way.

I am not too depressed about the weekend. The real point of Game is that it will force me out of my comfort zone and make me more of a man. Men should be able to confront embarrassment and push forward. There is never any guarantee of victory in any battle. I have at least been able to maintain an extrovert and charismatic persona while at Speakers Corner and maintained control of my own meeting.

The London Scene

The London economy is suffering more than most in the UK but one of the few industries that are growing is Pick Up. In fact seduction seems to have become an export industry. AFC Adam has now moved to the states and has been voted No1 pick up artist in the world. London Soul spends much of his time in Scandinavia and is now known as Soul.

London has also produced a number of interesting business models. We have Gambler and PUA training, this outfit runs a residential boot-camp in the West End (where the nightclubs are) and also teaches men to look good. Gambler looks like a male model and is keen to tell everyone he once looked like a nerd.

Even more interesting is Day Game which seems to to the leading day game site in the world. There are also many smaller and possibly part time sites. Sarge school is cheap and well liked.

Can you remember the content of your last Game book?

A few moments ago I was wondering which game book to recommend to a friend. I remember giving rave reviews to Natural Game but realize I cannot remember anything it advises.

I think it is time to stop studying game and get out there a little more.

NB The painting is 'Flaiming June' one of my beloved Pre Raphelite paintings at the Guildhall. The picture does not do the painting justice.

The Knight and the Gentleman

Social change seems to occur when a determined minority exploit an existing stereotype.

Feminism played upon existing positive images of women, such as motherhood and the innocent virgin we wish to protect. This is why we talk glibly about protecting 'women and children' as if these two groups were entirely the same. In fact they are not- women are adult human beings and almost as able to protect themselves as men. It would make more sense to talk of 'children and old people' although we never do.

Feminism has also taken the image of the chaste maiden and applied it to all women so that women become blushing virgins who must be protected from vulgar male contact.

The good news is that there are some very powerful male images that we can use if we choose. One of these is the Knight. A Knight is a submissive warrior who has taken a vow of obedience to a king or nobleman by kneeling and kissing his hand. In return for food and lodging (and possible future wealth) the Knight becomes a slave to his lord and will die on his command.

When a woman asks a man to propose on bended knee she is asking him to mimic the Knights original submissive act. The difference is that it is he who guarantees sustenance to the woman and not the other way around. Nevertheless it is understood that the husband must lay down his life if required.

This is a powerful aphrodisiac for most women. Having a man propose on bended knee is an act of submission on his part but it also shows strength (knights kill dragons).

In most species of animals it is the alpha male who confronts enemies so assuming this role is perfectly alpha provided he does so willingly. The alpha male protects his family because this is his nature- not because he is nagged into doing so. This is why the submissive act of proposing on bended knee is so ambiguous. The whole 'knights in shining armor' thing is popular among submissive women.

The Gentleman is the most powerful of all archetypes. He is also a warrior (or his ancestors were) and is now independently powerful. He carries himself with authority and never raises his voice because everyone knows who he is. He can make other people feel good about themselves and is unfailingly polite- but this is not nice-guy politeness. It comes from authority.

The gentleman is the ultimate alpha and also the finest husband any woman could wish for. He is the ultimate female sexual fantasy and he is not expected to be politically correct because only betas do this. The gentleman is often a bad-boy.

We can all be gentlemen. The gentleman has ultimate natural game and does not AMOG other men because he KNOWS what he is. He has nothing to prove and everyone seeks his approval. He never appears to try too hard. Let others sweat for status and acceptance. He claims these things as a natural right.

The gentleman treats women as ladies. This does not mean putting up with nonsense- it means holding women to high standards while believing in them. There is far more to a lady than being female just as there is more to being a gentleman than being male.

The gentleman is smooth. He never shouts, frets or whines. He is (in RSD lingo) 'unreactive'. In fact the gentleman embodies every game concept. He peacocks in his dress. He embodies a fantasy. He is sincere and finds the good in people but he never flatters.

Above all the gentleman is secure within himself and has nothing to prove.

Not-getting-laid game.

My game revolves around deliberately not getting laid. Many younger guys will scratch their heads at this (I am 50) and may be tempted to bring out the pop psychology. My take on it is quite simple.

1) Bad sex is over rated- and most one night stands involve bad sex for the man. The inauthentic patten of relationships established during the pickup are likely to continue between the sheets. In other words the PUA will continue to run 'routeens' on her except that they will be sexual routeens rather than verbal ones. The girl is likely to continue to go along for the ride and remain quite passive because this has worked for her up until that point. The result is inauthentic sex following an inauthentic pick up. This is great for superficial women (lots of passive orgasms) but not so great for the man. The chief benefit is probably the bragging rights.

Quite frankly- the Internet is more fun.


2) Why bother with women at all? I suppose one reason is that I need validation from them. I love it when they look at me as if I were the most wonderious thing they had ever seen. I want to be lost in that gaze and to bathe in it like a sea.


3) Once I separate my need for validation from the sex, everything becomes simple. I game women I am not even attracted to. This makes them happy and reminds them of their youth and beauty. They shine and even look a little younger as a result. Why not make people happy? I receive as much validation from this as from bad sex- and far fewer STD's.


4) The road is now open for romance. All my life I have been a 'good' lover in the sense that I can give orgasms. Unfortunately I get very little pleasure in return. This will not bother the average night club bimbo but it will bother the woman I fall in love with. I want to receive pleasure for the first time in my life and I want this to bring me close to another human being.


So there you have it. My game makes women feel desired and beautiful and it makes me feel like a player- but it avoids the one part of the pickup that I do not enjoy- the sex.

More comedy from 'The Ghost Nation'

There is an anti semitic blog out there calling itself The Ghost Nation that has taken my 'Ghost Nation' essay as its own (but has not corrected the typo).

I wrote a disclaimer on my own blog to make it clear that I am not an anti Semite and to distance myself from his more authoritarian leanings- but I continue to allow him to use it because I simply want people to read my stuff.

Unfortunately the trouble with authoritarians is that they are- authoritarian. TGN has made a series of hilarious attacks on me claiming that he does not know who wrote the essay (but somehow he knows it is not me).

He has now added the following disclaimer of his own-

*The original author of the above essay stated years ago that he wished to remain anonymous as Internet records prove. It is common knowledge that real name of the author of the original essay is unknown. The essay is public domain. The original author is believed to be deceased as he was past retirement age when he wrote it. The website www.theghostnation.com was not named after the above essay. It was named from a completely different essay that shall remain anonymous and unknown to everyone but the creator of this website.

So we learn that the I am not only unknown but that I am dead. Presumably the owner of The Ghost Nation  contacted me in the spirit world as he admits he has not done so in this one. Indeed, he could not possibly have done so as he claims to be unaware of me (although apparently also obsessed by me). Furthermore there is a mysterious second essay with the same title as my own- but the author of  The Ghost Nation chooses to keep it secret despite claiming his secret version is superior.

He is clearly a very strange man.

The good news is that I do seem to be annoying some feminists

I love Alison

The trouble with education is that it is expensive and most people cannot find the time for it. Learning involves traveling to a large city, giving up regular work and spending a great deal of money on lectures that will inevitably be expensive as they involve a live performance by a skilled lecturer.

Very few people could afford such a show through their own resources and so the state stepped in and poured money into it. This made a degree only slightly more affordable but did nothing to overcome the other problems- and the fact that conventional education is reliant on good lecturers. State funding brought its own problems, of course because western universities became overrun by minority groups such as feminists who were only interested in promoting their own agenda. Basically, in a university you get what you are given. You have to accept the ideology that is served up to you or you simply will not pass.

This is old technology and is a perfect picture of how society was organised prior to the Internet. Information flows downwards from the apex of some pyramid and is tightly controlled by a well intentioned elite.

It is not surprising that we see this system starting to break down. Allison is a sort of free vocational course provider that is funded entirely by advertising. If you wish to be issued with certificates there is a charge for this- but it is possible to avoid the need for physical certificates completely as the information is available online.

Alison profile

It should be noted that some courses do not result in a certificate and that the computer seriously underestimates the time spent studying. These are minor gripes.

An employer may check the courses you have completed simply by clicking a link directly from your C.V.

The main problems are that many of the courses do not correspond to mainstream ones and there is no formal examination at the end. This means that Alison certificates are generally not understood by employers. To counter this Alison have introduced flash tests by which candidates may take an instant test at any time- even at the interview if this is required.

This is an exciting, competency based approach and I wish them well.

The two great mysteries of life.

1. Rich men who marry.

2. Women who allow their boyfriends to take pornographic photographs of them.  (several hundred such women are humiliated on the Internet every day.)


Both of these mysteries point to a universal human need to trust others. Feminism is essentially an 'anti trust' message. Sometimes this is justified but generally it simply acts as a barrier between men and women. It tells women that every man is a rapist and it tells men that they will be raped in a family court if they fall in love or create a family.

Fortunately the need to trust is greater than all of these warnings, so trust.. but leave your brain engaged.

Art and the gentleman.

The distinguishing feature of the gentleman is not that he his rich- it is that he knows how to live well. One way that this may be done is by cultivating a love of art and architecture. I would urge every man to invest a week of his life attempting to do this.

What follows is a guide to some of my favorite London galleries. There are many many more but I would advise you to start here. If you do not live in London this guide may inspire you to visit what is available locally or even visit me here.

Do not overdo it! I sometimes see exhausted tourists who fail to engage with the art at all due to visual overload. The object is not to tick paintings off some list but to engage emotionally with something. Everything is free. By the end of this process you will have seen some of the worlds greatest paintings and will be able to run art game!!

I am ignoring conceptual and primitive art because most of it is c**p.

DAY ONE. Start with the National Gallery and National Portrait Gallery to give you some idea what you are likely to like. They are both off Trafalgar Square.

DAY TWO. Visit the Tate Britain (not to be confused with the Tate Modern). Make sure you see the pre Raphelites that can induce a drug like state. Then take the tube and visit the little known Guildhall Gallery for some more. Sometimes the Guildhall charges admission so check in advance if this is important to you. There is a Roman Amphitheater below the gallery.

DAY THREE. Try the Wallace Collection and Courtauld gallery (free on Monday). Enjoy the spectacular architecture in both buildings.

DAY FOUR. Another beautiful building today The Royal Acadamy of Art. The free art is round the back!! You may also visit the nearby ICA for a depressingly modern contrast.

DAY FIVE. Nearly finished! The Victoria and Albert contains gigantic quantities of art.

DAY SIX. Well done! If you have made it this far you will have found something that you like a great deal. This means you can talk about art in a non bullshit way (I like X because..) rather than trying to impress. I said  that I would not burden you with conceptual art but you may like to visit the Tate modern and the rather splendid Saatchi gallery as a contrast.

Art can also be used to pick up women.

METHOD ONE. Stand next to a woman in a gallery and simply say 'what do you think?' This is a very natural thing to say as you are both wondering the same thing.

METHOD TWO. If you meet a woman who resembles a particular painting- say so. This is immensely flattering and she will rush to the nearest computer to look it up. You may tell her quite truthfully that the Internet cannot do the picture justice and then offer to take her there. This is a very non sleazy pickup and opens up the conversation wonderfully.

Romance and the male soul.

Oh how simple everything was in 1953- and how limiting!

Men and women would consult the Book of Love (from the famous song) and know their roles exactly.

Men were sexual.

Women were romantic.

It was more or less expected that a young man would walk around in a state of sexual frustration because he would have no reason to marry if he was not. This made premarital sex very precious to him because it was the only free relationship he would ever embark upon.

Women were forbidden from being openly sexual but they could indulge in romance of a distorted and limited kind. This 'romance' was dictated by the advertisers who told women that love meant regular gifts of flowers and chocolates. In effect this 'romance' was nothing more than an extended test of a man's ability to provide for a future wife. Love had nothing to do with it.

Gradually this artificial distinction was broken down. Women realized that it was OK to be sexual but did not realize that it was also OK to be romantic. We see this most strongly in films such as 'Sex and the City' in which women sit around and discuss their empty sex lives endlessly. They seem entirely focused upon sex and yet they have no real companionship in their lives- why else would they spend so much time together?

I think the time is right for men to become as liberated about romance as women have become about sex. This is a natural development because sex is no longer the rare thing it once was. Almost any man can learn a little game and get lucky and many men are discovering that the most precious moment is when a woman looks at him with that look of wonder and total acceptance that is impossible to describe.

Alpha action!

How many men can be Alpha? Mystery would probably tell you that the number is small and that the only way to maintain alpha is to push other men into beta status.

This idea- common among alpha types- is the greatest threat facing men today. It is the real reason why men in authority will not come to the aid of other men. Quite simply- the men who run our society at present believe that the biggest threat they face is other potential alphas. As a result they will crush their fellow man and favor their private harem of female hangers on who are usually feminists. Dominant gorillas do the same thing.

If you are a member of an insecure elite the first thing you do is eliminate younger male rivals. This may be called Ethnic Cleansing or feminism. In reality there is no difference as the purge is always directed at younger men. Feminism is actually a fantastically brutal AMOG by which men are symbolically castrated by women.

The interesting thing is that game is becoming less brutal with age because TRUE alphas- the great leaders-  build up the men who surround him and this is why he can count upon their loyalty. The man who is admired by other men is truly irresistible to women- and the best way to be admired by a man is to help him become a true alpha himself.

The curse of Game

The curse of game is that it requires self transformation. The blessing of game is that it requires the same thing.

A woman can improve her attractiveness quite easily by changing her hair, wearing different makeup or a push-up bra.This means that the mating game is easy for her while she is young but very unforgiving once she begins to age.

This is actually quite a brutal situation. The woman feels her loss of attractiveness with each passing year. This knowledge can help us to be compassionate when a woman become clingy or panicky about commitment.

A man cannot resort to the same quick fixes. Working out will help him a little- but in the absence of game it will do nothing.

A man must transform himself on a deeper level. Sure.. this is hard work, but the benefits are so much greater than a new haircut.

Why teach English?

A preview?

This is what happens when governments do not balance their books.

The truth about non jobs

Ryanair DHV routeen.

Ryanair is the famously c**p but ultra cheap airline. The most I have ever paid for a ticket with them is just £5- and this includes tax!

How it works.

You are with a woman and are getting on well. You simply say (very casually)

'Hey, I am going to Rome (or wherever) next week- want to come?'

She may raise some practical objection (such as having a job) but you have established the following-

a) That you are spontaneous, fun and full of adventure.

b) You can keep it cool and not go weird and intense when alone with her (red roses, declaration of love and so on).

c) By mentioning Ryanair you make it clear that you are NOT  impressing her with money and that she will pay her own ticket!

You may then move on to travelers stories from this point. The more you talk about fun you had WITHOUT her, the more she will want to be with you.

Remember- the DHV is about fun. It is NOT about telling her you are rich.

NB: The picture is a genuine screenshot of the company website. They advise customers to travel naked to speed up boarding times.