Be social.

It is always the lonely guy who takes the blame. A very nasty trend has developed in the UK by which the media descend upon socially isolated men on the periphery of murder cases. The connection can be quite slight, such as working in the same office or living within a mile of the victim. The media will then build a case against this innocent man by questioning neighbours about his habits. Does he live alone? Keep strange hours? Is he quiet or shy? Does he have a girlfriend? If not- why? Can his previous girlfriend be found and persuaded to say something bad about him? All of this may be done without ever saying he is the killer and therefore not breaking any law.

Of course, most of us will never be caught up in a murder enquiry- but the same vindictive lack of logic applies to almost every area of life. The isolated introvert is far more likely to be accused of sexual harassment than the office romeo despite the fact that the shy guy cannot even talk to women let alone harass them. This happens because emotions are contagious. The shy man always feels awkward and tense and as a result women feel tension and fear around him. He is utterly innocent of all wrongdoing but creeps women out simply by being in the same room.

The only defense is to develop as a human being. The best defense is a circle of female friends who act as proof of your non creepiness.A gazelle will not approach a watering hole where there are no other herbivores drinking. This is because the gazelle assumes that a predator must be lurking nearby even if they cannot be seen. It is much the same with women. A man who has no women near him is assumed to be dangerous while a popular man is assumed to be safe- or why would other women feel safe to graze near him?

In short.. the less fearful you are, the safer you will be.

I hope this helps.

What is a bug out bag?

A bug out bag is simply a bag that survivalists keep permanently packed and ready to go. This is a sort of escape kit and in the USA often contains outdoor survival equipment. The contents of the kit will vary according to the nature of the perceived threat. Britain is more densely populated than the USA and so there is far less countryside to escape to.

My own bug out bag contains a few outdoor items along with my documents. The remainder of the space is taken up with lightweight food and drink. In fact I suspect that my bug out bag will never be used for this purpose as I would probably wait out most emergencies at home.

Nevertheless I have chosen each item carefully for multiple uses. My bug out bag is a useful camping kit, took kit, and general resource.

A walk in the wild wild wood.

Let us face it. A shiver of fear can be fun. This is why many of us watch Dr Who each week. If the monsters do not frighten us a little we are disappointed.

We see the same on the Internet. it is clear that many people actually enjoy the prospect of the world ending in 2012 as it pulls them from the dullness of their lives. Problems begin when paranoia enters politics. Most fear is simply a means for the powerful to control the gullible. The more fear there is in the world the more we look to a hero to save us. This results in us clamoring for politicians to take more power and money so that they might save us from this or than enemy (racists, food additives or the dreaded Patriarchy). The public would never allow themselves to be controlled in this way unless they were first scared by some political demon.

We are by nature fearful animals so we may as well CHOOSE our fears according to our own interests. The really interesting thing about political fear is that it comes in two basic varieties. First we have 'authoritarian' fears that are manufactured by the state. These are fears that naturally lead to greater state power and are basicaly projections of the fear every state has of its people. This includes most environmentalism which is the fear of self interested people. Feminism is an authoritarian fear of human nature. All authoritarian fear leads to greater state power. On occasion (war, plague) these fears are justified but generally they are not.

There is also a second group of fears and these are the 'libertarian' fears. These usually concern what the government is planning to do to the individual. Libertarian fears tend to reduce state power and give the individual more room to live. Survivalism is libertarian because it advocates a do it yourself approach. Survivalists are not looking for the state to tell them what to do and neither are Men Going Their Own Way. This means that both movements are pro freedom.

Authoritarian fear systems tend to have harmful effects upon a persons mental state. Feminists are often harmed by their own manufactured fears and come to feel like helpless victims. They do not try to deal with their own problems but demand the state do so for them. Libertarian fear systems tend to be far more beneficial because they involve the individual actually doing something about their own problems. A survivalist or a man going his own way has a plan for his own salvation. He does not sit around complaining that the state is not his mummy and his daddy and therefore is less prey to helplessness and depression.

The art is to channel paranoid energies and make them serve useful ends. All of my projects do the following..

a) They deal with real threats that can be dealt with. There is not point in worrying about global events that we cannot change.

b) They are social in the sense that your own survival will not be at the expense of others.

c) They are cheap.


MODULE 6   Concerns itself with political risk and speech codes. UNDER CONSTRUCTION

MODULE 7   Concerns itself with financial survival. UNDER CONSTRUCTION

MODULE 8   Concerns itself with urban survivalism. UNDER CONSTRUCTION

MODULE 9   Concerns itself with rural survivalism. UNDER CONSTRUCTION

MODULE 10 Concerns itself with psychological self defense. UNDER CONSTRUCTION

Travel as a path to self improvement.

Backpacking can improve a man. It can make him more tolerant of the funny foreigners as well as teaching him to think on his feet.

Most single men are single because they are meeting very few new women. There is actually very little wrong with them. and it is almost impossible NOT to meet women on the road provided one does not stay in a swish hotel. You may leave your nerd persona at home.

Five roads to freedom.

This post is the cumulation of everything I have previously written (basically a description of the problem). My aim is now to find solutions. I believe there are five roads to freedom. Any man may choose these roads but none of them are without cost. You may even travel down more than one at a time, but you will do better if you choose a primary road and follow it to the end.

Each of these roads has a dedicated page on this blog. If you are interested in finding out more simply click on the links to the right of the page. Specific escape plans will not be covered much in general posts such as this one.

METHOD ONE. Character makes a man bullet proof. He does the right thing regardless of the opinions of others. This means that shaming tactics simply do not work. It also means that other men are drawn to him like a magnet because they instinctively know he may be relied upon. He is also irrisistable to women but this is not his reason for being.

METHOD TWO. This concerns itself with the science of Game. Game can be a potent means of developing social skills. You may tell a man that he needs to control his interacions with women and he will listen politely- but if you tell him this will get him laid he will listen avidly!

METHOD THREE. Many men are living abroad with traditional woman. This section will give approximate costings of the various options.

METHOD FOUR. Going ghost. Some men reach a point where culture can no longer hurt them. This is typically done in three stages. First, they feel pain but do not really know where it comes from. Then they wake up and realize that it is feminism. They become angry for a whale and then simply shrug their shoulder and move on. They attain a state that is rather like Buddhist detachment- they watch feminists and their puppets rage on and feel no connection to the insanity. It is quite impossible to insult or upset a man who has gone ghost- but unfortunately it is also hard to make him commit to what is good. Very often men who go their own way will simply go into the freedom they have found. They feel no pain or anger and so have nothing to write about.

METHOD FIVE. Religion has a sort of immunity from political correctness. This is quite strange as most PC folk say they are atheists. The Church of England has become thoroughly feminist and is dead on its feet. The only anti feminist churches are the various West African denominations. These churches are winning white converts in large numbers. If you believe in God you may find it convenient to hide behind an ethnic church.

Pickup Artist parody

Speakers corner, Hyde Park

American tourists visit Speakers corner to hear the English eccentric in full flow. Anyone can go there and spout whatever they wish. Generally the loudest voices and the most extreme views hold the day.

Yesterday they had the opportunity to hear about men's rights. The great thing about this subject is that people think it is more controversial than it is. Therefore- as soon as a man stands up to speak he will receive an audience. People do not go there to hear reasoned argument- they come for the flame wars!

There were three of us in the group, although I was the only one who spoke.

There is no better (or cheaper) assertiveness training in the world! It is also the most fantastic fun!

These were great guys and I hope they will be a nucleus of a future London based group. I have not been as hopeful as this for many years.

A woman says it better than me

Two sides to the coin

The pick up artist lives a double life. One foot is in heaven and the other is in hell.

This is illustrated by the pick up theory model of male psychology.

Alpha (always gets the girl).

Beta (always pays the bills)

Omega (has a fast broadband connection. Invisible to women)

The Pick Up artist always alternates between the highest and lowest state. When he gets the girl he feels Alpha and when he does not he becomes an Omega. His problem is that he is not really in control of anything. He may have a hundred different systems but ultimately his state is dependent upon a woman's approval.

This is one reason Pick Up is addictive. The artist must always surpass his last triumph. If he fails he is relegated to Omegadom until he eventually succeeds. Every high contains the seed of the next low.

Pick up is a great hobby and a great route to self improvement. Unfortunately it is a lousy identity because it alows women to decide your worth as a human being. The PUA only feels successful when he is being laid and therefore relies upon others for his self worth.

This is why MGTOW can teach the community a great deal. MGTOW is all about forming brotherhoods and ways of defining men that are not dependent upon mainstream society or its limiting definitions. A man with this basic viewpoint can play the Game without becoming lost within it.

It is a hobby and that is all.

Beyond victim hood.

I have been away from the 'manosphere' for some time. It was too depressing for me. I became interested in Game which offered hope and even had some modest results. Woody Allen put it best when he told us that Sex was one of the better empty experiences.

The thing I really missed was authenticity- the act of being myself despite everything. Strangely, Game has helped me with this more than with the sex. A true Alpha is always himself and never politically correct. He is also fireproof and can say things nobody else can. I even incorporated anti feminism into my pick up to give me 'bad boy' appeal.

Am I a true Alpha? No- but I am a convincing fake and this will do. Women tend to pander to Alphas and punish Betas. Alpha men simply do not meet feminists!

Feminism is a symptom of your Beta status!!

I am now returning to MRA sites and see that others are making the connection. Something very exciting is happening. I think that a new movement will arise that combines self help, pick up and anti feminism that will have wide appeal and change society for the better.

The pick up community is growing through example. Those who study it are transformed and become magnets to others because it is obvious that these men have something that other men want.

Right now MRA's are not an attractive bunch. We suffer a collective depression and learned helplessness. Men may agree that we are right but they do not want to be like us.

Many men's rights activists are beginning to transform themselves using Game methodology. This automatically improves our social skills and makes us the nucleus of a future social movement. Right now there are probably 30 really competent MRA pick up artists in the world. We can expect this to increase several thousandfold within a few years.

Some people are using game to improve mental health and business success..

We will go further than anyone else. We will transform civilization..