WHAT WORKS
1) A change of scenery. I can get laid on holiday- particularly when I am not surrounded by too much luxury. Hostels are best as most people leave their boring identities at home. This even happened when I became briefly homeless about 15 years ago. I have never had so much attention from women before or since which makes me doubt some of the things the community say about social proof!
2) Anything do do with German girls. They are quite masculine in a way and will hunt you down if they want you. They are also very good in bed.
WHAT DOES NOT WORK
1) Being overly sensitive.
2) Being a provider.
This is just my personal experience.
2 comments:
Interesting!
I tend to attract depressed women who need a provider, a listener and a troubleshooter. I am starting to get tired of that role and of people depening on me for that kind of stuff.
Next time I'm single I'll try an adventure.
I'm interested in any tips on how keep things "no strings attached" and not to get sucked into a relationship due to obvious ability to provide, listen and solve problems.
One of the things I have found in life is that there are more givers than takers. I have always been very willing to give and give and give within relationships. When I became homeless I suddenly found women who were willing to give to me but I was unwilling to enter the role of taker. This meant that I was pursued by them.
Maybe the answer is to learn to take 50% of the time. It can be difficult but you are rewarded with a better class of woman.
All the best.
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